{"product_id":"fawning-why-the-need-to-please-makes-us-lose-ourselves-and-how-to-find-our-way-back-paperback","title":"Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves – and How to Find our Way Back (Paperback)","description":"\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eKICKSTART THE NEW YEAR WITH PURPOSE!\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eAS FEATURED ON BBC WOMAN'S HOUR\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eFawning is the vital, newly-discovered topic in psychology. You've heard of\nfight, flight and freeze - but fawning might be the most common trauma response\nof all. Learn how to work through it and find freedom with the leading expert,\nDr. Ingrid Clayton.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\nDo you avoid conflict?\u003cbr\u003e\nDo you tend to take the blame?\u003cbr\u003e\nDo you take care of others at the expense of yourself?\u003cbr\u003e\nDo you live in a state of hypervigilance?\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\nFawning can present as being \u003ci\u003emore \u003c\/i\u003eof who someone is: smart, generous,\nsuccessful, funny, or beautiful, while for others it's about being \u003ci\u003eless\u003c\/i\u003e:\nvocal, ethnic, creative, self-assured or boundaried. Fawning can be visible or\ninvisible; it can manifest in our relationships to sex or money, or in the\ntendency to 'people-please'; but one thing remains constant: it is about\nfinding safety in an unsafe world, often at our own expense.\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\nFawning expert and clinical psychologist Dr. Ingrid Clayton is here to bring\nclarity and support. The first book by a practitioner with years of experience,\n\u003ci\u003eFawning \u003c\/i\u003ewill shine a light on this under-represented but crucial piece\nof the trauma puzzle. Drawing on twenty years of clinical psychology work, as\nwell as a lifetime of insight as a recovering fawner herself, this\ngroundbreaking book brings this emerging concept into the mainstream\nconversation. Readers will learn WHY we fawn, HOW to recognize the signs of\nfawning and WHAT we can do to successfully 'unfawn', using Clayton's invaluable\ntools and resources to find meaningful, reciprocal connections - and finally be\nourselves.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eAbout the Author\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\n\n\n\n\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eIngrid Clayton\u003c\/b\u003e, PhD is a clinical psychologist in Los\nAngeles, California. She has been in private\u003cbr\u003e\npractice since 2009. While continually expanding her expertise and training in\ntrauma, Ingrid has always been interested in taking little-known concepts and\nexpanding their reach. Her first book was based on her dissertation research on\nspiritual bypassing and its impact on recovery for alcoholics and addicts.\nRecovering Spirituality: Achieving Emotional Sobriety in Your Spiritual\nPractice was published by Hazelden in 2011 (6,869 in sales).\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\nIngrid is a regular contributor to Psychology Today where her blog has received\nover 1 million views. The article, \"What is Self-Gaslighting?\" is\nconsidered an Essential Read. This topic is related to fawning and will be\nhighlighted in Fawning.\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\nIn 2022, Ingrid self-published a memoir, Believing Me: Healing from\nNarcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma which uncovers her personal experience of\nchildhood trauma from a psychologist's perspective. Ingrid took on every aspect\nof this project by herself, and without a marketing team or distribution, she's\nsold a total of 12,437 books: 8,677 paperback and ebooks in 14 months and 3760\naudiobooks in 12 months.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"PANSING DISTRIBUTION PTE LTD","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":46479489892559,"sku":"9781785123061","price":23.95,"currency_code":"SGD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0574\/5662\/3823\/files\/download_92f087dd-acc9-491f-8f5e-171108b28229.jpg?v=1794362444","url":"https:\/\/popular.baby\/products\/fawning-why-the-need-to-please-makes-us-lose-ourselves-and-how-to-find-our-way-back-paperback","provider":"Popular Bookstore","version":"1.0","type":"link"}